Reaching Nicotera it's easy , you need to travel on the A3 freeway (E45) in Reggio Calabria's direction if you come from northern Italy and in Salerno's direction if you come from southern Italy. The suggested exit is Rosarno , 17kms away from Nicotera centre and once you are out of the freeway you just need to follow the Rosarno's and then later Nicotera's directions.
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By Train
Rosarno's and Nicotera's train stations , suggested station : Rosarno.